A MOTHER of five has spoken of how harsh experiences during her own childhood inspired her to become a foster carer.

Judy Diaz, 49, of Stratton, shared her experience ahead of Foster Care Fortnight, which starts today, in the hope of encouraging other people to take on this challenging but hugely rewarding role.

Judy said: “I had a really tough, strict childhood. There was no warmth so I was determined to change that with my own family as well as anyone else who needed to feel supported and loved.”

Her caring and generous nature was soon recognised by her teenage children’s friends, who often called in for advice and to feel accepted.

“They would often say ‘mum and dad never listen’ – they probably felt more understood in our home because we listen and don’t judge,” she said.

“Our house became a bit of a sanctuary, so we thought why not do it more formally and foster.”

That was three years ago – now Judy, with her partner Stephen, a lift engineer, looks after two girls, aged 13 and 16.

Judy said: “The 13-year-old is doing really well at school and we’re helping her to have empathy with others.

"The older one has two big things on the horizon, like my own 16-year-old daughter, which are exams and the prom. It’s nice to be able to support them through a challenging and stressful time.

“Football is a big thing in our house, and we’ll often go swimming, ice skating or trampolining.

“We make cakes, play Monopoly and also make up our own games. There’s never a dull moment and at the end of the day you always feel like you’ve made a difference.”

But the role isn’t easy and Judy has found the support from social workers as well as fellow foster carers invaluable.

“I really enjoy meeting up with other foster carers over a coffee, so we can talk things through – having that network is so helpful,” she said.

The council needs foster carers of all ages for children of all ages, with placements lasting anything from a few days to many years.

Marital status, ethnicity, sexuality, age and whether you have children or not are no barriers to fostering.

Carers receive payment and allowances to help cover their time and expenses, as well as free ongoing training to develop existing and acquire new skills.

Councillor Fionuala Foley, Swindon Borough Council's cabinet member for children services, said: “I feel in awe of Judy’s tremendous generosity and tireless ability to help so many teenagers who are going through tough times.

“Foster carers are the unsung stars of society and I hope Foster Care Fortnight will help to shine a light on the truly wonderful endeavours of people like Judy and make them feel special.

“My message to all foster carers in Swindon is thank you so much and to anyone who thinks they may also be able to help, please get in touch. You really could change a child’s life forever.”

You can find out more, or register your interest, by calling 01793 464 329 or emailing fosteringrecruitment@swindon.gov.uk