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with 'SWINDON NEWS'
8:24am Thursday 8th May 2008
AN MP has apologised after sending a congratulatory letter to a dead boy on what would have been his 18th birthday.
Michael Wills, the Labour MP for North Swindon, said sorry to the mother of 17-year-old Chris Garrod, who was killed by a hit-and-run driver on Christmas Day.
“This is an appalling situation. I am really sorry and don’t know how it happened."
Michael Wills
The letter from Mr Wills was posted to Chris's address five days before what should have been his big day.
Mr Wills said that he was shocked by the administrative error and could not explain why the letter was sent out.
Mr Wills said: "This is an appalling situation. I am really sorry and don't know how it happened."
Rebecca Garrod, Chris' heart-broken mother, who lives in Pinehurst, said that the letter all but shattered her hopes that her son's birthday would be a celebration rather than an anniversary full of mourning.
Mrs Garrod, who was inconsolable until yesterday, said that she expected Mr Wills to ensure checks were made before letters were sent out to constituents.
She said: "I just started to cry when I received it and I have been crying over the past few days.
"Chris isn't here and he isn't coming back and it is hard enough to deal with as it is.
"Every day is a struggle and to have a letter like this to highlight that he is no longer around just breaks my heart more."
Mrs Garrod said that before receiving the letter she had decided to throw a party for her four-year-old son Ellis who shares the same birthday as Chris. Fighting back the tears she added: "I decided to throw Chris' birthday party on Sunday for his friends to make it more of a celebration, so I am trying to stay positive and make it a celebration but then this it makes everything harder.
"I visit his grave every day and almost anything sets me off, but I would have expected Mr Wills to check. After all, the accident was all over the papers.
"All he spoke about before his death was his 18th birthday. He wanted to celebrate it so badly."
Cathy Blake, Mrs Garrods' mother, said: "Michael Wills is right when he says this is an appalling situation. It never should have happened and if this can save another mother from going through the sort of pain my daughter is going through because of it then it has all been worth it."
Chris died after being hit by a car on Christmas morning close to the pedestrian crossing on Great Western Way at Transfer Bridges.
He had been celebrating the festive season with friends and was walking home at the time of his death.
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
9:13am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
9:16am Thu 8 May 08
Swindon Resident, Swindon, Wiltshire says...
9:19am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
9:27am Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
9:28am Thu 8 May 08
Swindon Resident wrote:You get a mailmerge leaflet about voting, and a few other bits and bobs I forget about. It's all rather cheesy.
Why would an MP be sending a letter to an 18 year old for his birthday in the first place..?? Is this the norm?? Do MP's send birthday greetings to everyone celebrating their 18th? The whole thing is shoddy, disgusting and extremely distressing for the family.
Robert Feal-Martinez, Swindon says...
9:30am Thu 8 May 08
malkym, says...
9:55am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83, Stratton says...
10:08am Thu 8 May 08
Dublin Red, DUBLIN says...
10:09am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
10:10am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:14am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83, Stratton says...
10:23am Thu 8 May 08
A commercial organisation is completely different to a political party, an MP and a Minister for Data Protection.
Voice of Sanity, Swindon says...
10:24am Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
10:26am Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Sanity wrote:If you write and ask for your details to be removed from the mailing list, he is obliged to do so. In my mind, it should be opt-in rather than opt-out, but then, since when did that matter to Almighty Leader McBroon and Co.?
I am not surprised at this example of ineptitude form the office of Michael Wills. I made the mistake once of contacting him concerning school allocation. After that I received endless letters telling me how clever he was and about his latest campaigns on things I had absolutely no interest in.
Frontier(s), says...
10:27am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83 wrote:You said it was similar. I'm saying it isn't, at all.
A commercial organisation is completely different to a political party, an MP and a Minister for Data Protection.I did state that it wasnt the same
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:29am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s) wrote:Also stated it's not the same, i know what Emz meant and im sure you do!
emmylou83 wrote:You said it was similar. I'm saying it isn't, at all.A commercial organisation is completely different to a political party, an MP and a Minister for Data Protection.I did state that it wasnt the same
Frontier(s), says...
10:30am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83, Stratton says...
10:31am Thu 8 May 08
I know its not the same but its certainly similar, give the guy a break.
emmylou83, Stratton says...
10:34am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:35am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s) wrote:THats right they are unacceptable but in this real world regetablly they do happen, A goverment data base should be updated, not sure where Emma works would be tho,if they asked for goverment help in updating would'nt that be an intrusion into ones privacy
steve-o, you just posted that all the excuses are unacceptable and then support emmyloy saying that mistakes happen and we should give the guy a break. Which is your actual view?
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:36am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83 wrote:Thank you Emma
Steveo never said he agreed with me he was just pointing out that I did say its not the same but similar
Donkey, Swindon says...
10:40am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:42am Thu 8 May 08
Terence, Swindon says...
10:44am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83, Stratton says...
10:46am Thu 8 May 08
, why would an MP be sending someone, apparently unknown to him, an 18th birthday card anyway?
Frontier(s), says...
10:50am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o, Swindon says...
10:51am Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83 wrote:Your right Lord B stated earlier
, why would an MP be sending someone, apparently unknown to him, an 18th birthday card anyway?I got one when I turned 18 I think its just standard thing to welcome you intot the wonderful world of voting
Oxford, Toothill says...
11:07am Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
11:26am Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
11:37am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o, Swindon says...
11:42am Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
11:53am Thu 8 May 08
steve-o wrote:Exactly, the buck stops with him! He will do like any head of the team and accept responsiblity for his TEAM's actions. Just like Willie Walsh of BA for Heathrow Terminal 5, he accepted responsibility for the fiasco of the short comings of his managers and BAA and there are other companies/businesses
DA your the first one to mention the word TEAM,while he is head of that team he cant take the flak all the time,this is not adefence of him, just an observation
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
12:00pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
12:01pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
12:01pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
12:11pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
12:12pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror wrote:
Michael Wills, although (well his team) is in the wrong, he is not the only one.
Frontier(s), says...
12:17pm Thu 8 May 08
doug wrote:
Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?
emmylou83, Stratton says...
12:21pm Thu 8 May 08
Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?
Terence, Swindon says...
12:21pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
12:34pm Thu 8 May 08
Terence wrote:Well, I suppose the answer is yes. I usually send them back with the word deceased written on the front, but as this one came from the funeral directors who actually handled her funeral I have to say I was more that curious to the content. OK naughty me tampering with the Royal Mail!
Doug - I apologise if the question is insulting but I have to ask it, have you been opening mail intended for somebody else? :)
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
12:38pm Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83 wrote:Only a short while ago you posed the question to himself, 'Big Mac, why do you always rain on my parade', I would have thought that statement says you have had issues!
Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?And?? I've never had any issue with Big Mac/Frontier(s) as a person and I'm sure as long as Frontier(s) behaves themselves (no offence) then webteam will let them stay
Frontier(s), says...
12:52pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm wrote:I think emmylou was being a little jokey with that comment. If I recall the thread (and her comment) it wasn't anything serious at all.
emmylou83 wrote:Only a short while ago you posed the question to himself, 'Big Mac, why do you always rain on my parade', I would have thought that statement says you have had issues!Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?And?? I've never had any issue with Big Mac/Frontier(s) as a person and I'm sure as long as Frontier(s) behaves themselves (no offence) then webteam will let them stay
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
12:56pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
1:00pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s) wrote:So, you've never made a mistake or accepted responsibility of other peoples' mistakes who were working for you.
DarkAuror wrote: Michael Wills, although (well his team) is in the wrong, he is not the only one.Doesn't that type of response usually end sometime just after we've left school though? I mean, the whole 'I know it's wrong but other people do it too' thing might sound half-acceptable from a five-year old, but a Minister for Data Protection? And, as it happened, Willie Walsh of BA did merrily accept responsibility for the T5 fiasco but then ensured he kept his job whilst sacking others. Not the best example of 'the buck stops with him'! Mind you, it's the standard behaviour these days - just tell everyone you made a mistake and then carry on with business as usual. Gordon Brown did the very same thing on Sunday after the humiliating polls of last week. He happily told us all he might have made some mistakes (although he still appears not to realise what he's actually done to this country) and then said he'd carry on as normal. These people, amazingly, seem to believe we'll all simply say, 'Oh, right, that's OK then'. It isn't.
Oxford, Toothill says...
1:07pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
1:16pm Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Sanity, Swindon says...
1:53pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
2:02pm Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Sanity wrote:In that case, he was breaking the law. It needs to be removed first instance - I suggest legal action if it happens again ;)
Lord B - yes, you would have thought it would be quite simple to get removed from teh mailing list by sending an e-mail. However, it took me 18 months (letters and e-mails) to get his letters stopped!
emmylou83, Stratton says...
2:06pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm wrote:I was messing and I'm sure he knows that I have no issues with him at all. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and if they don't agree with mine then thats fine
emmylou83 wrote:Only a short while ago you posed the question to himself, 'Big Mac, why do you always rain on my parade', I would have thought that statement says you have had issues!Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?And?? I've never had any issue with Big Mac/Frontier(s) as a person and I'm sure as long as Frontier(s) behaves themselves (no offence) then webteam will let them stay
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
2:14pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua wrote:Yes and no Lord B, the good weather makes the sheep hot, and they cant be sheared for at least 3 weeks, in the meantime I have to prevent 'fly strike', this is where those green flies lay eggs in the fleece and then the maggots literally eat the sheep alive. A mixed blessing but I'm happy for the sun to shine, thanks again for asking.
Knowing Emmylou, she was probably being humourous. How's life on the farm anyway Doug? Good weather is a blessing I expect!
steve-o, Swindon says...
2:15pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua wrote:Exactly.
Knowing Emmylou, she was probably being humourous. How's life on the farm anyway Doug? Good weather is a blessing I expect!
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
2:20pm Thu 8 May 08
emmylou83 wrote:Fair enough, no offence!
doug@homefarm wrote:I was messing and I'm sure he knows that I have no issues with him at all. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and if they don't agree with mine then thats fineemmylou83 wrote:Only a short while ago you posed the question to himself, 'Big Mac, why do you always rain on my parade', I would have thought that statement says you have had issues!Emmylou you do realise that Frontier(s) is Big Mac under another name donÂ’t you?And?? I've never had any issue with Big Mac/Frontier(s) as a person and I'm sure as long as Frontier(s) behaves themselves (no offence) then webteam will let them stay
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
2:29pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm wrote:Oh dear. Doesn't sound very nice - just as well I'm not on lunch!
LordBelacqua wrote: Knowing Emmylou, she was probably being humourous. How's life on the farm anyway Doug? Good weather is a blessing I expect!Yes and no Lord B, the good weather makes the sheep hot, and they cant be sheared for at least 3 weeks, in the meantime I have to prevent 'fly strike', this is where those green flies lay eggs in the fleece and then the maggots literally eat the sheep alive. A mixed blessing but I'm happy for the sun to shine, thanks again for asking.
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
2:34pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
2:37pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm wrote:Haha! That must be one big applicator ;)
Gallons of 'spot on' just like cats and dogs but much, much bigger
Frontier(s), says...
2:48pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror wrote:
So, you've never made a mistake or accepted responsibility of other peoples' mistakes who were working for you.
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
2:58pm Thu 8 May 08
(for your own potential gain)
Voice of Reason, The Parks says...
3:07pm Thu 8 May 08
DarkAuror, Swindon says...
3:08pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s) wrote:How was it used improperly? It was taken from easily available records that interested parties can get hold of.
DarkAuror wrote: So, you've never made a mistake or accepted responsibility of other peoples' mistakes who were working for you.Of course I've made mistakes, everyone does. However, mistakes are not all equal. When you are the Minister for Data Protection it is not simply a 'mistake' to use data that you hold (for your own potential gain) improperly. It is not simply a 'mistake' to misuse data in a way that then upsets a grieving family. We all make mistakes at work, yes, but if we made one as monumentally bad as the one Mr Wills' made, we would either be sacked or have the decency to accept that maybe another form of employment is more suited to us.
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
3:16pm Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Reason wrote:Thankee VoR :) Popping out tonight for a meal at Bob's (The Carpenters, I've wanted to try the food there), and I've just received a work card signed by lots of people I've either met once or not at all!
Off the subject, Happy Birthday for this weekend M'lord B hope you have a good one mate and not to many shandies lol...
emmylou83, Stratton says...
3:18pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua wrote:Oi what am I scotch mist. I;m giving up a saturday night of dying from this summer cold to see you grrrr
Voice of Reason wrote: Off the subject, Happy Birthday for this weekend M'lord B hope you have a good one mate and not to many shandies lol...Thankee VoR :) Popping out tonight for a meal at Bob's (The Carpenters, I've wanted to try the food there), and I've just received a work card signed by lots of people I've either met once or not at all!
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
3:20pm Thu 8 May 08
Oi what am I scotch mist. I;m giving up a saturday night of dying from this summer cold to see you grrrr
emmylou83, Stratton says...
3:24pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua wrote:I'm already ill but int he true spirit of being a woman and working through it I will be there
Oi what am I scotch mist. I;m giving up a saturday night of dying from this summer cold to see you grrrrAnd I've told you if you're not well to not bother! No point in making yourself ill for my sakes!
Voice of Reason, The Parks says...
3:26pm Thu 8 May 08
john c, swindon says...
3:28pm Thu 8 May 08
LordBelacqua, Swindon says...
3:30pm Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Reason wrote:Indeed - congratulations on the new job, by the way. Applying for my new one at the moment! I'm just thinking of spiel for "Why do you want to work here". I don't think "Working with radioactive stuff is kewl and I, like, desperately need the income" will cut it. Unfortunately ;)
I know what you mean Dan its my last day here tomorrow after 6yrs I wonder how many people will sign a goodbye card that I dont even know..
emmylou83, Stratton says...
3:31pm Thu 8 May 08
Voice of Reason wrote:But aren't you going back in like a week?? Same building etc etc just different company name
I know what you mean Dan its my last day here tomorrow after 6yrs I wonder how many people will sign a goodbye card that I dont even know..
Frontier(s), says...
4:06pm Thu 8 May 08
john c wrote:I don't suppose for one second that he chose to make his apology public. I'm sure he'd have liked nothing more than for it to be buried.
This appears to have been just an unfortunate mistake and at least Mr Wills has had the decency to make a public admission of the error and apologise for it. Yes his being the Minister for Data Protection does make the error seem worse.
Donkey, Swindon says...
4:33pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
4:40pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
5:26pm Thu 8 May 08
Donkey wrote:
I have a feeling that our sitting MPs have far more support and admiration from the electorate than some seem to imagine, though.
WTF?, Swindon says...
5:50pm Thu 8 May 08
Dick-Turpin, Swindon says...
6:19pm Thu 8 May 08
jo-ent, Swindon says...
6:58pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
7:04pm Thu 8 May 08
But surely his position as Data Protection Minister is now completely untenable, and he should resign from that post.
Des Moffatt, Swindon says...
7:36pm Thu 8 May 08
Frontier(s), says...
7:40pm Thu 8 May 08
The builder, Old Town says...
8:25pm Thu 8 May 08
So how much blame/responsibility should be apportioned to Michael Wills on this one?
town of the future, swindon says...
10:44pm Thu 8 May 08
doug@homefarm wrote:After all, his family dredge it up every five minutes in the local paper.
You are quite correct in many ways Big Mac, if the family had not gone too the press no-one, including Wills, would have known. If the family had ensured that his name was not being held on the lists of electors etc, then it would not have happened. True they have many things on their mind, and how many of us would rember to get thises things deleted when loved ones die.Wills has apologised, people might want his blood for it, but thats not fair!
if the family had not gone too the press no-one, including Wills, would have known.
If the family had ensured that his name was not being held on the lists of electors etc, then it would not have happened.
SpeakUp, Swindon says...
1:39am Fri 9 May 08
doug@homefarm, SN1 says...
9:14am Fri 9 May 08
town of the future, swindon says...
2:27pm Fri 9 May 08
Donkey, Swindon says...
4:24pm Fri 9 May 08
I Too Could Be a Councillor, Swindon says...
8:01pm Fri 9 May 08
I have told you time and time and time again, I am NOT a Tory and have no affiliation to any political party.
Frontier(s), says...
6:55am Sat 10 May 08
I Too Could Be a Councillor, Swindon says...
11:45pm Sun 11 May 08
Hopefully that was supposed to be a mickey take out of Donkey.
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Robert Feal-Martinez, Swindon says...
8:56am Thu 8 May 08