CHILDREN are the forgotten secondary victims of domestic abuse and this week, Swindon Women’s Aid is highlighting the untold effects on their wellbeing.

The charity has teamed up with Swindon Community Safety Partnership to host a number of events and raise awareness of the taboo subject during Domestic Violence Awareness Week, which runs until November 28.

Even if children are not the direct targets of domestic abuse, witnessing the violence, even behind closed doors, has severe long-term consequences on their lives.

Jo Heaven, business development manager at Swindon Women’s Aid, said: “When we think of domestic violence, pictures of adult victims and perpetrators come to mind, but there are often children who witness the abuse either directly or through closed doors.

“Some children can be injured as they try to defend their mothers or be abused alongside the adult victim.”

To support these most vulnerable victims the charity has a dedicated team of workers who aim to support and care for the children at the Women’s Refuge.

Jo said: “At Swindon Women’s Aid we have a dedicated team of children’s support workers that have supported the 196 child victims of domestic violence that have stayed at the refuge since 2012.

“The children’s behaviour may be withdrawn and they will have difficulty making new friendships.

“Other children have violent outbursts mirroring the behaviour they have seen in their own homes. Often communication skills are not fully formed as family discussions have been stilted or they have kept quiet to avoid confrontation.”

The work revolves making the children feel safe, and providing them with the means to explore their creativity and capacity for learning without living in fear.

Jo said: “Through structured sessions, activities and trips the children are given the opportunity to be children again – to play, trying new sports or just having fun.

“Mothers are helped to re-bond with their children and improve their parenting skills.

“Improvements in communication skills and a reduction in social isolation are welcome by-products of these activities.”

A number of events are set to take place this week to raise awareness of domestic abuse as well as offering information sessions and the opportunity to buy a white ribbon.

On Saturday people can head along to a fundraising Winter Wonderland Ball and, on Friday, Swindon Women’s Aid is asking supporters to wear their pyjamas to work.

If you are affected by domestic violence contact Swindon Women’s Aid on 01793 610610 or for more information visit www.swindonwomensaid.org.