FRIENDS and family of dementia sufferers are being asked to make New Year’s resolutions to spend time with their loved ones even if they think they are no longer recognised.

In a study out this week it was revealed that more than a third of people in the south west have doubts over the benefits of visiting sufferers who no longer show any recognition.

Dementia sufferers often feel isolated after their diagnosis, something frequently witnessed by SEQOL, a social enterprise that helps people to make the most of their lives.

Lynda Hughes, programme manager for dementia at SEQOL said: “It doesn’t surprise me at all that people feel isolated after their diagnosis. We see this all the time. A diagnosis can be emotionally shattering and resultant withdrawal, anxiety and depression are common. It can be a very lonely and frightening experience.”

Despite friends and family often feeling their visits are no longer helpful once the sufferer no longer knows who they are, Lynda believes that the connection gained from spending time with family is incredibly valuable to those living with dementia.

She said: “As the illness gets worse it’s even more important that we support people to experience life in the most enjoyable and positive way, both for quality of life and in maintaining support and develop brain function.

“Memory is only a small part of who we are. It is not the whole story. We can still experience joy, grow, learn, develop new friendships and relationships and enjoy life “When moments are enjoyed together we can connect with our past and our emotions, helping both to feel valued and enriched.

“Supporting people to continue to experience these things, even if we feel someone doesn’t recognise us can be a wonderful and enriching experience for all involved and continuing to be part of someone’s life can be invaluable.”

New Year can be a particularly isolating time for those affected by dementia, as after the festive celebrations it may be a while before they next spend time socialising or leave the house.

Lynda said: “It is vital that family members and friends continue to spend time with loved ones who suffer from dementia, especially in the New Year which can be particularly isolating.”